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	<title>Comments on: 8 Things That Destroyed our Marriage- Part 1</title>
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	<description>Restoring Hope &#124; Renewing Relationships</description>
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		<title>By: Pain to Purpose</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-2/#comment-12862</link>
		<dc:creator>Pain to Purpose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 21:10:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The sentence that jumped out at me was: &quot;pray for God to change you into the person your spouse needs you to be.&quot; I paused at that moment to reflect on that and ask God what exactly that would be. IThe answer came immediately: Show unconditional love to your prodigal husband. This is not an easy thing considering the things he is putting me through, but the more I love Jesus, the more I become capable of allowing His love to shine through me.
I am so thankful I read this post today. God bless you as you minister! I know that God is going to turn my story around too and reconcile my marriage, like he did yours.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The sentence that jumped out at me was: &#8220;pray for God to change you into the person your spouse needs you to be.&#8221; I paused at that moment to reflect on that and ask God what exactly that would be. IThe answer came immediately: Show unconditional love to your prodigal husband. This is not an easy thing considering the things he is putting me through, but the more I love Jesus, the more I become capable of allowing His love to shine through me.<br />
I am so thankful I read this post today. God bless you as you minister! I know that God is going to turn my story around too and reconcile my marriage, like he did yours.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian Stankich</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-2/#comment-12348</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian Stankich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 May 2011 15:56:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this testimony, thank you for sharing it.  It is so encouraging.  

I would add that my prayer isn&#039;t that God will make me into the husband my wife needs me to be but rather that he changes me to be more like Christ - and I think she&#039;ll appreciate and love that person more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this testimony, thank you for sharing it.  It is so encouraging.  </p>
<p>I would add that my prayer isn&#8217;t that God will make me into the husband my wife needs me to be but rather that he changes me to be more like Christ &#8211; and I think she&#8217;ll appreciate and love that person more.</p>
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		<title>By: @CoryMcDooRoo</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-4989</link>
		<dc:creator>@CoryMcDooRoo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 08:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for writing on this topic.  Prior to my wife and I separating four months ago (reconciled now) we never prayed together or for each other.  Now, since our marriage was restored we make it a point to pray together and for each other daily and nightly prior to bed.  Looking at it now it&#039;s embarrassing because my wife led a youth ministry and Praise team and I was doing a Men&#039;s ministry.  I feel there&#039;s few things more devastating to a marriage than not praying together and for each other. 
 
Thank you for your blog and website. 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http://twitter.com/CoryMcDooRoo/statuses/18825052316&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;CoryMcDooRoo- Driving 5 hrs to Denver with the family in the morning- going to a Pirates Cove water park tomorrow and going cont http-tlgd-2j8u3n&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for writing on this topic.  Prior to my wife and I separating four months ago (reconciled now) we never prayed together or for each other.  Now, since our marriage was restored we make it a point to pray together and for each other daily and nightly prior to bed.  Looking at it now it&#039;s embarrassing because my wife led a youth ministry and Praise team and I was doing a Men&#039;s ministry.  I feel there&#039;s few things more devastating to a marriage than not praying together and for each other. </p>
<p>Thank you for your blog and website.<br />
My recent post <a href="http://twitter.com/CoryMcDooRoo/statuses/18825052316" target="_blank">CoryMcDooRoo- Driving 5 hrs to Denver with the family in the morning- going to a Pirates Cove water park tomorrow and going cont http-tlgd-2j8u3n</a> </p>
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		<title>By: @CoryMcDooRoo</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-8256</link>
		<dc:creator>@CoryMcDooRoo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 08:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for writing on this topic.  Prior to my wife and I separating four months ago (reconciled now) we never prayed together or for each other.  Now, since our marriage was restored we make it a point to pray together and for each other daily and nightly prior to bed.  Looking at it now it&#039;s embarrassing because my wife led a youth ministry and Praise team and I was doing a Men&#039;s ministry.  I feel there&#039;s few things more devastating to a marriage than not praying together and for each other. 
 
Thank you for your blog and website. 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http://twitter.com/CoryMcDooRoo/statuses/18825052316&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;CoryMcDooRoo- Driving 5 hrs to Denver with the family in the morning- going to a Pirates Cove water park tomorrow and going cont http-tlgd-2j8u3n&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for writing on this topic.  Prior to my wife and I separating four months ago (reconciled now) we never prayed together or for each other.  Now, since our marriage was restored we make it a point to pray together and for each other daily and nightly prior to bed.  Looking at it now it&#039;s embarrassing because my wife led a youth ministry and Praise team and I was doing a Men&#039;s ministry.  I feel there&#039;s few things more devastating to a marriage than not praying together and for each other. </p>
<p>Thank you for your blog and website.<br />
My recent post <a href="http://twitter.com/CoryMcDooRoo/statuses/18825052316" rel="nofollow">CoryMcDooRoo- Driving 5 hrs to Denver with the family in the morning- going to a Pirates Cove water park tomorrow and going cont http-tlgd-2j8u3n</a></p>
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		<title>By: Tonya Ingram</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-3506</link>
		<dc:creator>Tonya Ingram</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 17:41:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am currently single but am learning and taking in all God says about marriage so that I can be prepared.  Thank you for this. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am currently single but am learning and taking in all God says about marriage so that I can be prepared.  Thank you for this. </p>
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		<title>By: Tonya Ingram</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-8255</link>
		<dc:creator>Tonya Ingram</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 17:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am currently single but am learning and taking in all God says about marriage so that I can be prepared.  Thank you for this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am currently single but am learning and taking in all God says about marriage so that I can be prepared.  Thank you for this.</p>
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		<title>By: davisfamily05</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2341</link>
		<dc:creator>davisfamily05</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 13:27:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Julie,  
  
I just wanted you to know that I will be praying for you and for your marriage! All things are possible with God. Our marriage is living proof of that! If we can serve you in any way, please let us know!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Julie,  </p>
<p>I just wanted you to know that I will be praying for you and for your marriage! All things are possible with God. Our marriage is living proof of that! If we can serve you in any way, please let us know!  </p>
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		<title>By: davisfamily05</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-8254</link>
		<dc:creator>davisfamily05</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 13:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Julie,  
  
I just wanted you to know that I will be praying for you and for your marriage! All things are possible with God. Our marriage is living proof of that! If we can serve you in any way, please let us know!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Julie,  </p>
<p>I just wanted you to know that I will be praying for you and for your marriage! All things are possible with God. Our marriage is living proof of that! If we can serve you in any way, please let us know!</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-2313</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 15:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>God lead me here.  My husband and I are currently separated.  I&#039;ve learned so very much about myself and our relationship.  I pray God enters our marriage, heals us from within, and leads us down our path together in a Godly marriage. 
 
Thank you so very much for sharing your story.  It has been a great help. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God lead me here.  My husband and I are currently separated.  I&#039;ve learned so very much about myself and our relationship.  I pray God enters our marriage, heals us from within, and leads us down our path together in a Godly marriage. </p>
<p>Thank you so very much for sharing your story.  It has been a great help. </p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-8253</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 15:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>God lead me here.  My husband and I are currently separated.  I&#039;ve learned so very much about myself and our relationship.  I pray God enters our marriage, heals us from within, and leads us down our path together in a Godly marriage. 
 
Thank you so very much for sharing your story.  It has been a great help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God lead me here.  My husband and I are currently separated.  I&#039;ve learned so very much about myself and our relationship.  I pray God enters our marriage, heals us from within, and leads us down our path together in a Godly marriage. </p>
<p>Thank you so very much for sharing your story.  It has been a great help.</p>
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