Comments on: 8 Things that Destroyed our Marriage – Part 3 http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/ Restoring Hope | Renewing Relationships Wed, 08 Feb 2012 19:10:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Done With It http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-4553 Done With It Thu, 17 Jun 2010 11:13:29 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-4553 I could easily cry right now... I'm on the verge of leaving my husband, because I'm tired of every week, every grocery shopping trip, every anything, being an argument. He took over the finances because I had messed them up, but he's not doing much better - now, instead of me spending money on things the family needs, I get a set amount of money each payday to cover food, fuel, household needs, children's expenses, etc., and it doesn't stretch to cover all of it. He wants the rest in savings - but then spends $60 on biking equipment for his hobby, while the kids need clothes and school supplies. I love him dearly, and I know he loves me, too - but I can't keep living with the arguments. Last night, it went on for an hour, and was overheard by our kids, plus three other children who were spending the night with us. This is not the life I want to live. I could easily cry right now… I'm on the verge of leaving my husband, because I'm tired of every week, every grocery shopping trip, every anything, being an argument. He took over the finances because I had messed them up, but he's not doing much better – now, instead of me spending money on things the family needs, I get a set amount of money each payday to cover food, fuel, household needs, children's expenses, etc., and it doesn't stretch to cover all of it. He wants the rest in savings – but then spends $60 on biking equipment for his hobby, while the kids need clothes and school supplies. I love him dearly, and I know he loves me, too – but I can't keep living with the arguments. Last night, it went on for an hour, and was overheard by our kids, plus three other children who were spending the night with us. This is not the life I want to live.

]]> By: Done With It http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-8266 Done With It Thu, 17 Jun 2010 11:13:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-8266 I could easily cry right now... I'm on the verge of leaving my husband, because I'm tired of every week, every grocery shopping trip, every anything, being an argument. He took over the finances because I had messed them up, but he's not doing much better - now, instead of me spending money on things the family needs, I get a set amount of money each payday to cover food, fuel, household needs, children's expenses, etc., and it doesn't stretch to cover all of it. He wants the rest in savings - but then spends $60 on biking equipment for his hobby, while the kids need clothes and school supplies. I love him dearly, and I know he loves me, too - but I can't keep living with the arguments. Last night, it went on for an hour, and was overheard by our kids, plus three other children who were spending the night with us. This is not the life I want to live. I could easily cry right now… I'm on the verge of leaving my husband, because I'm tired of every week, every grocery shopping trip, every anything, being an argument. He took over the finances because I had messed them up, but he's not doing much better – now, instead of me spending money on things the family needs, I get a set amount of money each payday to cover food, fuel, household needs, children's expenses, etc., and it doesn't stretch to cover all of it. He wants the rest in savings – but then spends $60 on biking equipment for his hobby, while the kids need clothes and school supplies. I love him dearly, and I know he loves me, too – but I can't keep living with the arguments. Last night, it went on for an hour, and was overheard by our kids, plus three other children who were spending the night with us. This is not the life I want to live.

]]> By: anon http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-3921 anon Mon, 10 May 2010 16:50:12 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-3921 I am in that predicament where i wasn't honest about or finances with my husband and now he is leaving me and I am distraught....I want to fix this but he will not listen I am in that predicament where i wasn't honest about or finances with my husband and now he is leaving me and I am distraught….I want to fix this but he will not listen

]]> By: anon http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-8265 anon Mon, 10 May 2010 16:50:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-8265 I am in that predicament where i wasn't honest about or finances with my husband and now he is leaving me and I am distraught....I want to fix this but he will not listen I am in that predicament where i wasn't honest about or finances with my husband and now he is leaving me and I am distraught….I want to fix this but he will not listen

]]> By: Mr. Nuggets http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-357 Mr. Nuggets Thu, 20 Aug 2009 21:50:23 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-357 All I can say is I could not have found your blog at a more auspicious time. Very much needed ... Thank you for your ministry. All I can say is I could not have found your blog at a more auspicious time. Very much needed …

Thank you for your ministry.

]]> By: Mr. Nuggets http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-7036 Mr. Nuggets Thu, 20 Aug 2009 21:50:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-7036 All I can say is I could not have found your blog at a more auspicious time. Very much needed ... Thank you for your ministry. All I can say is I could not have found your blog at a more auspicious time. Very much needed …

Thank you for your ministry.

]]> By: Lance http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-44 Lance Thu, 12 Feb 2009 15:57:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-44 Great post, the other night I asked my wife to be more like spaghetti than meat and potatoes. I said we need to more connected and overlapping for a while till we need find out where our balance is. Great post, the other night I asked my wife to be more like spaghetti than meat and potatoes. I said we need to more connected and overlapping for a while till we need find out where our balance is.

]]> By: Lance http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-7035 Lance Thu, 12 Feb 2009 15:57:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-7035 Great post, the other night I asked my wife to be more like spaghetti than meat and potatoes. I said we need to more connected and overlapping for a while till we need find out where our balance is. Great post, the other night I asked my wife to be more like spaghetti than meat and potatoes. I said we need to more connected and overlapping for a while till we need find out where our balance is.

]]> By: Anonymous http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-42 Anonymous Wed, 11 Feb 2009 19:18:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-42 you don't know me, but this is good stuff friend, very good stuff. you don’t know me, but this is good stuff friend, very good stuff.

]]> By: Anonymous http://refineus.org/2009/02/8-things-that-destroyed-our-marriage-part-3/comment-page-1/#comment-7034 Anonymous Wed, 11 Feb 2009 19:18:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=26#comment-7034 you don't know me, but this is good stuff friend, very good stuff. you don’t know me, but this is good stuff friend, very good stuff.

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