Comments on: 8 Things that Destroyed Our Marriage- Part 6

By: Justin and Trisha

Justin and Trisha — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 14:28:00 +0000

I do still see these comments. Please email us at refineus(at)gmail.com

By: questions

questions — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 04:57:00 +0000

Do you still see comments to these older posts? Just found this site and have some questions.

By: A.G.V

A.G.V — Wed, 16 Jun 2010 06:27:40 +0000

Thanks for posting this. I myself is in the same predicament. I chose to forgive my wife in order to restore our marriage. I learned that when I read the book "Surviving an Affair". My wife is a great woman. I know I've neglected her because I never thought she would leave. You have to give your heart to Jesus in order for you to have a forgiving heart. It's not easy but it can be done. Again, she is a great woman, she made a mistake, but everybody makes mistakes. You have to choose whether your spouse is worth fighting for. I would like to repeat that it is not easy and it's going to take some time. I'm in a special predicament because I am separated from my wife (I can't really be specific as to why). My wife is worth fighting for…my family is worth fighting for. I know it's going to take a lot of work but now that I have given myself to God, He is going to help us restore our marriage.

By: A.G.V

A.G.V — Wed, 16 Jun 2010 06:27:00 +0000

By: davisfamily05

davisfamily05 — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:49:30 +0000

Thank you. Please know that my wife and I will be praying for you. If we can serve you in any way, please let us know.

By: davisfamily05

davisfamily05 — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 03:49:00 +0000

Thank you. Please know that my wife and I will be praying for you. If we can serve you in any way, please let us know.

By: Dangerous Christian

Dangerous Christian — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 21:35:32 +0000

Thanks for sharing. I see a lot of me (and my wife) in your writings. I pray that God will speak to me through these posts, and that I turn my self and marriage over to Him while there’s still time.

God bless you richly.

By: Dangerous Christian

Dangerous Christian — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 21:35:00 +0000

God bless you richly.

By: Lead Pastor Shane Ogle

Lead Pastor Shane Ogle — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 00:34:55 +0000

Justin & Trisha,

I would say that I know of far too many folks who are going thru this very thing now - some who suspect infidelity and others who are actively engaged (or at least have a secret/or a hidden desire) - thus, the emotion of "Anonymous" seems to come thru as a hurt remembered/ experienced (I may read his/her response wrongly -- If I read correctly, we join in prayer for his/her pain.)

Justin and Trisha - this is an incredibly difficult thing for you to share - and also for others to read - for some may fear the same may be true in their own relationship - and the thought that they might have to go thru what you went thru is almost unbearable. In 21 years of ministry I have seen a lot of hurt - and little healing. May this post of yours be a hammer that breaks up the stone cold hearts of some and a balm that heals wounded hearts in others.

Just a thought - when you are thru with this very important series - maybe "8 Things (or more) that Saved/Restored our Marriage".

Thanks for the posts - this kind of vulnerability ain't easy!

By: Kristi O

Kristi O — Sun, 15 Feb 2009 23:40:00 +0000

{I am talking about finding freedom by offering forgiveness that is independent of the person’s condition or response. In other words my forgiveness was not conditional.} how come in 10 years of marriage and years walking with the Lord I never really saw this side of Forgiveness? I need to mull this over, this might be a key to me, my marriage and my ultimate freedom in my walk.