Comments on: 8 Things that Destroyed Our Marriage- Part 8

By: spooky

spooky — Mon, 04 Apr 2011 16:52:37 +0000

just because you look at porn doesn’t mean you have a sexual addiction. you have to empty that hose sometime or you’ll go crazy.

By: Susan

Susan — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 13:39:31 +0000

Oh Jessica! I hope that GOD will help you find a way to be open and honest in this very important part of your marriage. It sounds so familiar to me…but I had no idea it was as bad as it was. It has all but destroyed mine. Lost our house, our apt, our future…. Just remember that the 3 of you together, can do ANYTHING….even when it comes to finances. One deceit opens itself to more deceit…that is not what GOD intends for us, for our marriage. I will lift you in prayer.

By: Susan

Susan — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 13:39:00 +0000

By: Susan

Susan — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 13:34:17 +0000

….continued……
I am broken to the point of not wanting to live (although I am too chicken to end my life). I continue to pray for things to change…beginning with me. We are seeing a counselor once a week (my husband is a truck driver and only home 1-2 days a week)….and I find that counseling is not going well, or at least it seems that way, when I see no changes, no efforts from him…he does not think we need counseling. Oh how I long for what you both now have, and how I am praying for God to come on the scene with TIm in a MIGHTY way. Your story gives me hope …. I am so tired already and need that hope to help me go on. Thank you for sharing it…..thank you for your prayers for everyone that has found it…Thank GOD, for everything…yes, even this.

By: Susan

Susan — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 13:34:00 +0000

By: Susan

Susan — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 13:32:42 +0000

I have been searching for weeks for help on trying to explain my husbands reactions to finding out he had an affair. There is SO much to our story…..mostly involving lies…lies about money, lies that cost us our house, an apartment, and our financial future…about his secret drinking, and now about his love for me by having an affair. My world shattered a few weeks ago when I found sexts (sex texts) between he and a woman he met on facebook, then went to see her, then continued the sexts. I confronted him and he has been nothing but defensive….even to the point of telling me that if I contact her, he will leave me. I do not understand my reaction…why I did not tell him to leave! I am struggling to find GOD, he doesn't want any part of GOD. His belief is that everthing would have been alright if I just had not "snooped" and found out. I do not know how to handle his attitude….his lack of remorse…his refusal to repent…..and his continued desire to lie about everything. …Continued…..

By: Susan

Susan — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 13:32:00 +0000

By: Anon

Anon — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 22:17:39 +0000

I'm a little different: I withhold truth from my husband for fear of the "pain" he will inflict on me. He goes from normal to red hot screamin' angry in about 1 second. It's totally unmanageable for me and I don't want to even engage so I don't always give him the full story.

By: Anon

Anon — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 22:17:00 +0000

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 00:34:58 +0000

Where can I go hear you speak instead of reading blogs?