Yes, I said affairs, multiple, over the last 11yrs, and who knows if it’s going on now. He won’t admit to anything even with the proof I have. He has just gotten better at hiding.

We are separated, of course it’s all my fault..etc etc.. never mind that he is a cheating pile of garbage. He wants to do things with me, like normal people, but has yet to bring up the topic of our relationship. I’m waiting to see when/if that will happen. Perhaps he believes that time will make me forget? He should know better, after 24 years of marriage.

In the mean time, his friend (another man he works with) has been his sidekick and mole in the entire situation. The man even called the woman to tell her.. and I quote.. “Don’t come to the office, his wife is here, sorry, she just showed up out of the blue”. I want him to cut ties with that man as well as the mistress. He should cut ties with anyone who was supportive of the situation or helped him hide it.

It sickens me to see that friend, and the fact that he can look me in the face and say hello to me. Unbelievable!

Pastor Vance

She made me move out as if I had been the one to do something wrong. She asked me to move back and stated that she was willing to work on our marriage. We celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary and 2 week after this she asked me to move out again. She filed for divorce which completly devestated me. I lost 50 lbs, had to rely on sleeping medication for sleep, was prescribed anti-depresents and even attempted suicide. Even with all of this, my wife telling me the divorce was not about another man, she was continuely involved in the affair. It wasn’t until I walked in on them in our bedroom that she couldn’t deny her involvement, lies and deception. I still do not know if she has told me the truth as the deception continued for 7 months. When she had filed for divorce she was going out to clubs and was communicating with males she would meet. I know God can restore my marriage but the trauma, lies and deception is at times to much. I know I have forgiven her, however, she really has never asked for forgivness. She also countinues to communicate with a female friend that helped her maintain the affair from me. I have protected her and have not disclosed her affair to her family and mine. She does not want any one to know. Please pray for comlete restoration of my marriage.

She made me move out as if I had been the one to do something wrong. She asked me to move back and stated that she was willing to work on our marriage. We celebrated our 24th wedding anniversary and 2 week after this she asked me to move out again. She filed for divorce which completly devestated me. I lost 50 lbs, had to rely on sleeping medication for sleep, was prescribed anti-depresents and even attempted suicide. Even with all of this, my wife telling me the divorce was not about another man, she was continuely involved in the affair. It wasn’t until I walked in on them in our bedroom that she couldn’t deny her involvement, lies and deception. I still do not know if she has told me the truth as the deception continued for 7 months. When she had filed for divorce she was going out to clubs and was communicating with males she would meet. I know God can restore my marriage but the trauma, lies and deception is at times to much. I know I have forgiven her, however, she really has never asked for forgivness. She also countinues to communicate with a female friend that helped her maintain the affair from me. I have protected her and have not disclosed her affair to her family and mine. She does not want any one to know. Please pray for comlete restoration of my marriage.