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	<title>Comments on: Public Put Downs</title>
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	<description>To remove impurities from something...</description>
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		<title>By: Tweets that mention Public Put Downs &#124; Refine Us -- Topsy.com</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1118</link>
		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention Public Put Downs &#124; Refine Us -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 06:55:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Justin Davis, Justin Davis and Pat Rowland, carrie reynolds. carrie reynolds said: RT @justindavis33: Public Put Downs http://goo.gl/fb/BSFb [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Justin Davis, Justin Davis and Pat Rowland, carrie reynolds. carrie reynolds said: RT @justindavis33: Public Put Downs <a href="http://goo.gl/fb/BSFb" rel="nofollow">http://goo.gl/fb/BSFb</a> [...]</p>
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		<title>By: pete wilson</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1115</link>
		<dc:creator>pete wilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 02:23:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a problem with you publicly blaming me when we lose in cornhole. :) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a problem with you publicly blaming me when we lose in cornhole. <img src='http://refineus.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Becky</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1107</link>
		<dc:creator>Becky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 23:23:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am generally on the receiving end of this.  My sister is the only one that does it to me.  Although I have done this before to others, I try not to because I learned a while ago how it makes me feel.   
This is a good post!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am generally on the receiving end of this.  My sister is the only one that does it to me.  Although I have done this before to others, I try not to because I learned a while ago how it makes me feel.<br />
This is a good post!</p>
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		<title>By: Justin and Trisha</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1113</link>
		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 22:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry Jerm!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry Jerm!</p>
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		<title>By: Justin and Trisha</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1112</link>
		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 22:13:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not sure how I would quantify you being called a bully...could be a compliment :)  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;m not sure how I would quantify you being called a bully&#8230;could be a compliment <img src='http://refineus.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Lindsey_Nobles</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1111</link>
		<dc:creator>Lindsey_Nobles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 20:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Trish calls me a Bully all the time ;) But I kind of like it.  
 
It&#039;s amazing how when I am in a particularly sensitive mood something can hurt my feelings that typically I would laugh off. The trick is that 9 times out of 10 people don&#039;t know when I am feeling sensitive to be more careful with the words.  
 
I need to remember this when I make a joke at someone else&#039;s expense.  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trish calls me a Bully all the time <img src='http://refineus.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  But I kind of like it.  </p>
<p>It&#039;s amazing how when I am in a particularly sensitive mood something can hurt my feelings that typically I would laugh off. The trick is that 9 times out of 10 people don&#039;t know when I am feeling sensitive to be more careful with the words.  </p>
<p>I need to remember this when I make a joke at someone else&#039;s expense.</p>
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		<title>By: Jermtech</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1110</link>
		<dc:creator>Jermtech</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 20:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ouch, baby. very ouch. I predict this post will cause quite a long conversation at our house. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ouch, baby. very ouch. I predict this post will cause quite a long conversation at our house.</p>
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		<title>By: Justin and Trisha</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1108</link>
		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 16:35:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Been there...done that!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Been there&#8230;done that!</p>
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		<title>By: Justin and Trisha</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1109</link>
		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 16:35:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Becky! My sister was on the receiving end of this from me for years. God has worked on my heart in this area!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Becky! My sister was on the receiving end of this from me for years. God has worked on my heart in this area!</p>
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		<title>By: JasonWert</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/01/public-put-downs/comment-page-1/#comment-1106</link>
		<dc:creator>JasonWert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 16:18:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve always struggled with it because I&#039;ve unfortunately had a sarcastic kind of sense of humor.  You know, guys in the locker room kind of thing where if a friend dropped a plate food I&#039;d give the old &quot;nice one, genius&quot; or something else like that.  Of course, I get as good as I give.   
 
I&#039;ve been working on it because I know it doesn&#039;t look respectful to those who don&#039;t know us.  I don&#039;t want my friends to look badly to others. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;ve always struggled with it because I&#039;ve unfortunately had a sarcastic kind of sense of humor.  You know, guys in the locker room kind of thing where if a friend dropped a plate food I&#039;d give the old &quot;nice one, genius&quot; or something else like that.  Of course, I get as good as I give.   </p>
<p>I&#039;ve been working on it because I know it doesn&#039;t look respectful to those who don&#039;t know us.  I don&#039;t want my friends to look badly to others.</p>
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