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		<title>By: Transitions-Spence Smith &#124; Refine Us</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-13895</link>
		<dc:creator>Transitions-Spence Smith &#124; Refine Us</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 11:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] some people you just click with when you meet them. Spence is one of those guys for Trisha and me. He has guest posted at RefineUs before, and his post resonated with so many. It was a no brainer for us to ask him to speak into the topic [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] some people you just click with when you meet them. Spence is one of those guys for Trisha and me. He has guest posted at RefineUs before, and his post resonated with so many. It was a no brainer for us to ask him to speak into the topic [...]</p>
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		<title>By: stacy</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-5014</link>
		<dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 05:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The best advice I can give you is to go to divorcecare.org or com can&#039;t remember and find a group near you to join.  Even if the divorce isn&#039;t final its a great place to be.  You are right, the friends and family who haven&#039;t been through a divorce just can&#039;t understand but the people at divorce care do because they are going through the same thing.  It was a life saver for me.  Please check into it.  Some places have a divorce care class for children to help them understand what is going on. 
 
I am so sorry for your loss. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best advice I can give you is to go to divorcecare.org or com can&#039;t remember and find a group near you to join.  Even if the divorce isn&#039;t final its a great place to be.  You are right, the friends and family who haven&#039;t been through a divorce just can&#039;t understand but the people at divorce care do because they are going through the same thing.  It was a life saver for me.  Please check into it.  Some places have a divorce care class for children to help them understand what is going on. </p>
<p>I am so sorry for your loss.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Gunnels</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-6361</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Gunnels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 20:32:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/ (BAM) That&#039;s some good stuff from @SpenseSmith&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content"><a href="http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/" rel="nofollow">http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/</a> (BAM) That&#39;s some good stuff from @SpenseSmith</span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: katiemoon</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-6362</link>
		<dc:creator>katiemoon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 21:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;a great post by @SpenceSmith http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">a great post by @SpenceSmith <a href="http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/" rel="nofollow">http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Amy Head</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-2662</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy Head</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 16:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Spence, 
 
On December 24, 2009 I lost my husband of 17 years to a car accident.  I am still grieving daily, but your story has given me hope that I will someday be able to move forward and be strong.  I know that there will be many dates on the calendar and many places that I will go that will cause be to want to crawl in a hole, but I know with my faith and the love I have for our Lord that I will only become stronger as you have.  I comment you on your strength and perserverance to help others.  You have always been an awesome person.   </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Spence, </p>
<p>On December 24, 2009 I lost my husband of 17 years to a car accident.  I am still grieving daily, but your story has given me hope that I will someday be able to move forward and be strong.  I know that there will be many dates on the calendar and many places that I will go that will cause be to want to crawl in a hole, but I know with my faith and the love I have for our Lord that I will only become stronger as you have.  I comment you on your strength and perserverance to help others.  You have always been an awesome person.</p>
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		<title>By: alece</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-2658</link>
		<dc:creator>alece</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 15:43:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>spence, this was powerful. i, too, have places all around the world that i need to reclaim. so many memories that need to be redeemed.  
 
thank you for giving me hope that it IS possible. i can hear the freedom in where you are now because of it. and that is a huge encouragement to me. 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/www.gritandglory.com\/2010\/04\/02\/death-and-life\/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;death and life&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>spence, this was powerful. i, too, have places all around the world that i need to reclaim. so many memories that need to be redeemed.  </p>
<p>thank you for giving me hope that it IS possible. i can hear the freedom in where you are now because of it. and that is a huge encouragement to me.<br />
My recent post <a href="http:\/\/www.gritandglory.com\/2010\/04\/02\/death-and-life\/" target="_blank">death and life</a></p>
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		<title>By: SpenceSmith</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-2648</link>
		<dc:creator>SpenceSmith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 14:36:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you got it. it&#039;s going to be a tough day so you might as well prepare for it... take some times for yourself that day... grieve a little. it&#039;s always good to have some friends on hand just in case you just need to be with people who will care for you. you can do it. thanks for your comment. 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/spence_smith\/~3\/30y4MGpp9ko\/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Are You Pursuing Your Worth With Great Diligence?&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you got it. it&#039;s going to be a tough day so you might as well prepare for it&#8230; take some times for yourself that day&#8230; grieve a little. it&#039;s always good to have some friends on hand just in case you just need to be with people who will care for you. you can do it. thanks for your comment.<br />
My recent post <a href="http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/spence_smith\/~3\/30y4MGpp9ko\/" target="_blank">Are You Pursuing Your Worth With Great Diligence?</a></p>
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		<title>By: SpenceSmith</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-2647</link>
		<dc:creator>SpenceSmith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 14:34:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thats so good to hear. isn&#039;t it great to have friends around that love you? thanks for your cpmment! 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/spence_smith\/~3\/30y4MGpp9ko\/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Are You Pursuing Your Worth With Great Diligence?&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thats so good to hear. isn&#039;t it great to have friends around that love you? thanks for your cpmment!<br />
My recent post <a href="http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/spence_smith\/~3\/30y4MGpp9ko\/" target="_blank">Are You Pursuing Your Worth With Great Diligence?</a></p>
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		<title>By: SpenceSmith</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-2645</link>
		<dc:creator>SpenceSmith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 14:32:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks josh. 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/spence_smith\/~3\/30y4MGpp9ko\/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Are You Pursuing Your Worth With Great Diligence?&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks josh.<br />
My recent post <a href="http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/spence_smith\/~3\/30y4MGpp9ko\/" target="_blank">Are You Pursuing Your Worth With Great Diligence?</a></p>
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		<title>By: SpenceSmith</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/03/redemption-through-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-2646</link>
		<dc:creator>SpenceSmith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 14:32:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey! thanks! i hope you are doing well. it was great hanging with you briefly at recreate:) 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/spence_smith\/~3\/30y4MGpp9ko\/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Are You Pursuing Your Worth With Great Diligence?&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey! thanks! i hope you are doing well. it was great hanging with you briefly at recreate:)<br />
My recent post <a href="http:\/\/feedproxy.google.com\/~r\/spence_smith\/~3\/30y4MGpp9ko\/" target="_blank">Are You Pursuing Your Worth With Great Diligence?</a></p>
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