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		<title>By: BLJ</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-1/#comment-11126</link>
		<dc:creator>BLJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 18:28:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i just recently had a run in concerning this problem......my fiance had befriended women he did not know that were provocatively dressed ..... and i was suspicious. i found his page up one day and he had not completely logged out. ...i found that he had sent private messages to these women in which they responded back .... i was furious....he informed me it was innocents... i certainly don&#039;t agree...we almost split over this...said i didn&#039;t trust him and that i was controlling..and jealous.......the question is ......am i being controlling.....and silly about confronting him on this matter..........is this a serious enough reason to go seperate ways....or am i blowing things out of proportion........i mean he has never met up with anyone else face to face....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i just recently had a run in concerning this problem&#8230;&#8230;my fiance had befriended women he did not know that were provocatively dressed &#8230;.. and i was suspicious. i found his page up one day and he had not completely logged out. &#8230;i found that he had sent private messages to these women in which they responded back &#8230;. i was furious&#8230;.he informed me it was innocents&#8230; i certainly don&#8217;t agree&#8230;we almost split over this&#8230;said i didn&#8217;t trust him and that i was controlling..and jealous&#8230;&#8230;.the question is &#8230;&#8230;am i being controlling&#8230;..and silly about confronting him on this matter&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.is this a serious enough reason to go seperate ways&#8230;.or am i blowing things out of proportion&#8230;&#8230;..i mean he has never met up with anyone else face to face&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: A Place For The God-Hungry &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Ministry Inside.11</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-2/#comment-4993</link>
		<dc:creator>A Place For The God-Hungry &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Ministry Inside.11</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 03:18:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 3. I like Facebook. Through Facebook I have been able to get in touch with many, many people who I have known through the years, including some people I went to high school with. This has been great. At the same time I realize that some people have used Facebook to develop inappropriate and sinful relationships. You might want to at least be aware of a discussion taking place regarding this. One interesting article is: &#8220;Facebook Becoming a Prime Source for Divorce Case Evidence .&#8221; You might also be interested in reading: &#8220;Facebook Didn&#8217;t Destroy Your Marriage&#8221; and &#8220;Facebook Destroying Marriages?&#8221; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] 3. I like Facebook. Through Facebook I have been able to get in touch with many, many people who I have known through the years, including some people I went to high school with. This has been great. At the same time I realize that some people have used Facebook to develop inappropriate and sinful relationships. You might want to at least be aware of a discussion taking place regarding this. One interesting article is: &#8220;Facebook Becoming a Prime Source for Divorce Case Evidence .&#8221; You might also be interested in reading: &#8220;Facebook Didn&#8217;t Destroy Your Marriage&#8221; and &#8220;Facebook Destroying Marriages?&#8221; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Dave</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-1/#comment-4783</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 04:19:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really don&#039;t think facebook causes problems in marriage. There are problems before then that need to be fixed. 
 
The reason I think so is because if you took facebook away, and did nothing else for your marriage, then you would still have the same problems as you did before. 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http://idolwhiteexposed.net/idol-white-indepth-review/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Idol White Indepth Review&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really don&#039;t think facebook causes problems in marriage. There are problems before then that need to be fixed. </p>
<p>The reason I think so is because if you took facebook away, and did nothing else for your marriage, then you would still have the same problems as you did before.<br />
My recent post <a href="http://idolwhiteexposed.net/idol-white-indepth-review/" target="_blank">Idol White Indepth Review</a></p>
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		<title>By: Dave</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-1/#comment-9366</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jul 2010 04:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really don&#039;t think facebook causes problems in marriage. There are problems before then that need to be fixed. 
 
The reason I think so is because if you took facebook away, and did nothing else for your marriage, then you would still have the same problems as you did before. 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http://idolwhiteexposed.net/idol-white-indepth-review/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Idol White Indepth Review&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really don&#039;t think facebook causes problems in marriage. There are problems before then that need to be fixed. </p>
<p>The reason I think so is because if you took facebook away, and did nothing else for your marriage, then you would still have the same problems as you did before.<br />
My recent post <a href="http://idolwhiteexposed.net/idol-white-indepth-review/" rel="nofollow">Idol White Indepth Review</a></p>
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		<title>By: @paulaswift</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-1/#comment-4766</link>
		<dc:creator>@paulaswift</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 22:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>so true!!!   :) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so true!!!   <img src='http://refineus.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: @paulaswift</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-1/#comment-9365</link>
		<dc:creator>@paulaswift</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 22:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>so true!!!   :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so true!!!   <img src='http://refineus.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: m & j @Zcouple.com</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-1/#comment-5700</link>
		<dc:creator>m & j @Zcouple.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 03:11:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;RT @justindavis33: Would love your thoughts on Facebook&#039;s impact on marriages.... http://bit.ly/acQrjs #fb&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">RT @justindavis33: Would love your thoughts on Facebook&#39;s impact on marriages&#8230;. <a href="http://bit.ly/acQrjs" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/acQrjs</a> #fb</span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Lindsey @ A New Life</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-1/#comment-4728</link>
		<dc:creator>Lindsey @ A New Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 01:40:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Social media is an interesting beast. It can be used for SO much good--getting messages of God&#039;s grace and love and hope and redemption to so many. I know I have personally benefited from your site and others with the raw honesty and openness with which you both passionately hope to restore marriages.  
 
But it can also be a place where you can get too wrapped up in what others lives &quot;look&quot; like online, and start heading down the slippery slope of coveting and lust...whether it be a person, another marriage, a job, someone&#039;s friendships. The list goes on and on and on.  
 
It also has a sense of instant gratification to it that is dangerous.  You post your status on FB or Twitter and almost immediately someone replies or interacts. Can ease awkwardness in relationships for those of us who are wallflowers :-) since you don&#039;t normally associate with those people day to day and the feeling of acceptance can be heightened.  
 
My hubby and I have had conversations around what is too much to share, what is too personal, and what the boundaries are to reach others with God&#039;s glory while still protecting the ones we love and protecting our hearts.   
 
Most of what I share has to do with God&#039;s redemption in my life and I do have my hubby read through to make sure he is ok with what I am writing. I try not to compare myself to others and I rarely post anything I am currently working through that would cause feelings to be hurt or cause division in the body. 
 
My hubby has access to all my emails, passwords and vice versa, and I also have time limits in place so I don&#039;t get too caught up in the online world. It could be easy to fall into the not  living life in the real world with the people God has placed in my life to minister.   
 
 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http://anewlifehartz.blogspot.com/2010/06/god-of-second-chances-and-giveaway.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The God of Second Chances and Giveaway-&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Social media is an interesting beast. It can be used for SO much good&#8211;getting messages of God&#039;s grace and love and hope and redemption to so many. I know I have personally benefited from your site and others with the raw honesty and openness with which you both passionately hope to restore marriages.  </p>
<p>But it can also be a place where you can get too wrapped up in what others lives &quot;look&quot; like online, and start heading down the slippery slope of coveting and lust&#8230;whether it be a person, another marriage, a job, someone&#039;s friendships. The list goes on and on and on.  </p>
<p>It also has a sense of instant gratification to it that is dangerous.  You post your status on FB or Twitter and almost immediately someone replies or interacts. Can ease awkwardness in relationships for those of us who are wallflowers <img src='http://refineus.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  since you don&#039;t normally associate with those people day to day and the feeling of acceptance can be heightened.  </p>
<p>My hubby and I have had conversations around what is too much to share, what is too personal, and what the boundaries are to reach others with God&#039;s glory while still protecting the ones we love and protecting our hearts.   </p>
<p>Most of what I share has to do with God&#039;s redemption in my life and I do have my hubby read through to make sure he is ok with what I am writing. I try not to compare myself to others and I rarely post anything I am currently working through that would cause feelings to be hurt or cause division in the body. </p>
<p>My hubby has access to all my emails, passwords and vice versa, and I also have time limits in place so I don&#039;t get too caught up in the online world. It could be easy to fall into the not  living life in the real world with the people God has placed in my life to minister.   </p>
<p>My recent post <a href="http://anewlifehartz.blogspot.com/2010/06/god-of-second-chances-and-giveaway.html" target="_blank">The God of Second Chances and Giveaway-</a></p>
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		<title>By: Lindsey @ A New Life</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-1/#comment-9364</link>
		<dc:creator>Lindsey @ A New Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 01:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Social media is an interesting beast. It can be used for SO much good--getting messages of God&#039;s grace and love and hope and redemption to so many. I know I have personally benefited from your site and others with the raw honesty and openness with which you both passionately hope to restore marriages.  
 
But it can also be a place where you can get too wrapped up in what others lives &quot;look&quot; like online, and start heading down the slippery slope of coveting and lust...whether it be a person, another marriage, a job, someone&#039;s friendships. The list goes on and on and on.  
 
It also has a sense of instant gratification to it that is dangerous.  You post your status on FB or Twitter and almost immediately someone replies or interacts. Can ease awkwardness in relationships for those of us who are wallflowers :-) since you don&#039;t normally associate with those people day to day and the feeling of acceptance can be heightened.  
 
My hubby and I have had conversations around what is too much to share, what is too personal, and what the boundaries are to reach others with God&#039;s glory while still protecting the ones we love and protecting our hearts.   
 
Most of what I share has to do with God&#039;s redemption in my life and I do have my hubby read through to make sure he is ok with what I am writing. I try not to compare myself to others and I rarely post anything I am currently working through that would cause feelings to be hurt or cause division in the body. 
 
My hubby has access to all my emails, passwords and vice versa, and I also have time limits in place so I don&#039;t get too caught up in the online world. It could be easy to fall into the not  living life in the real world with the people God has placed in my life to minister.   
 
 
My recent post &lt;a href=&quot;http://anewlifehartz.blogspot.com/2010/06/god-of-second-chances-and-giveaway.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The God of Second Chances and Giveaway-&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Social media is an interesting beast. It can be used for SO much good&#8211;getting messages of God&#039;s grace and love and hope and redemption to so many. I know I have personally benefited from your site and others with the raw honesty and openness with which you both passionately hope to restore marriages.  </p>
<p>But it can also be a place where you can get too wrapped up in what others lives &quot;look&quot; like online, and start heading down the slippery slope of coveting and lust&#8230;whether it be a person, another marriage, a job, someone&#039;s friendships. The list goes on and on and on.  </p>
<p>It also has a sense of instant gratification to it that is dangerous.  You post your status on FB or Twitter and almost immediately someone replies or interacts. Can ease awkwardness in relationships for those of us who are wallflowers <img src='http://refineus.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  since you don&#039;t normally associate with those people day to day and the feeling of acceptance can be heightened.  </p>
<p>My hubby and I have had conversations around what is too much to share, what is too personal, and what the boundaries are to reach others with God&#039;s glory while still protecting the ones we love and protecting our hearts.   </p>
<p>Most of what I share has to do with God&#039;s redemption in my life and I do have my hubby read through to make sure he is ok with what I am writing. I try not to compare myself to others and I rarely post anything I am currently working through that would cause feelings to be hurt or cause division in the body. </p>
<p>My hubby has access to all my emails, passwords and vice versa, and I also have time limits in place so I don&#039;t get too caught up in the online world. It could be easy to fall into the not  living life in the real world with the people God has placed in my life to minister.   </p>
<p>My recent post <a href="http://anewlifehartz.blogspot.com/2010/06/god-of-second-chances-and-giveaway.html" rel="nofollow">The God of Second Chances and Giveaway-</a></p>
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		<title>By: Justin Davis</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/06/facebook-destroying-marriages/comment-page-1/#comment-5701</link>
		<dc:creator>Justin Davis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 00:48:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;Would love your thoughts on Facebook&#039;s impact on marriages.... http://bit.ly/acQrjs #fb&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Would love your thoughts on Facebook&#39;s impact on marriages&#8230;. <a href="http://bit.ly/acQrjs" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/acQrjs</a> #fb</span></span></span></p>
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