http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/ Restoring Hope | Renewing Relationships Tue, 22 May 2012 20:57:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-11715 Unknown Expectations | Refine Us Tue, 15 Feb 2011 13:03:24 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-11715 [...] We’ve written a lot on our blog about expectations. We have learned the hard way that an unspoken expectation is always an unmet expectation. We have written about the Reverse Messiah Complex and how we expected each other to be our messiah. [...] [...] We’ve written a lot on our blog about expectations. We have learned the hard way that an unspoken expectation is always an unmet expectation. We have written about the Reverse Messiah Complex and how we expected each other to be our messiah. [...]

]]> http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-5676 Michelle S Brinson Fri, 18 Jun 2010 20:15:14 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-5676 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">If you are not reading this blog.... you should. Awesome!! Unspoken Expectations http://bit.ly/cCurZZ</span></span> If you are not reading this blog…. you should. Awesome!! Unspoken Expectations http://bit.ly/cCurZZ

]]> http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-4572 Ani Fri, 18 Jun 2010 14:12:10 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-4572 Something to learn here. I do remember my sister-in-law complained to me and my cousin about her husband, my oldest brother. I asked her if she told him. She said she didn't. I told her it isn't written on her forehead and he can't guess. If he would guess and it's wrong it would also be frustrating for the both of them. I don't know what they did after that. We don't have a close relationship. That I said that to her doesn't mean I'm good at telling my expectations. I have to learn it too. A good post. Just a sidenote: I can tell you I'm fine now. I received a scripture this week which encouraged me and various other scriptures. One of them is Habakkuk 3: 17-19. I'm moving forward. Thanks for your prayers. Something to learn here. I do remember my sister-in-law complained to me and my cousin about her husband, my oldest brother. I asked her if she told him. She said she didn't. I told her it isn't written on her forehead and he can't guess. If he would guess and it's wrong it would also be frustrating for the both of them. I don't know what they did after that. We don't have a close relationship. That I said that to her doesn't mean I'm good at telling my expectations. I have to learn it too. A good post. Just a sidenote: I can tell you I'm fine now. I received a scripture this week which encouraged me and various other scriptures. One of them is Habakkuk 3: 17-19. I'm moving forward. Thanks for your prayers.

]]> http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-9151 Ani Fri, 18 Jun 2010 14:12:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-9151 Something to learn here. I do remember my sister-in-law complained to me and my cousin about her husband, my oldest brother. I asked her if she told him. She said she didn't. I told her it isn't written on her forehead and he can't guess. If he would guess and it's wrong it would also be frustrating for the both of them. I don't know what they did after that. We don't have a close relationship. That I said that to her doesn't mean I'm good at telling my expectations. I have to learn it too. A good post. Just a sidenote: I can tell you I'm fine now. I received a scripture this week which encouraged me and various other scriptures. One of them is Habakkuk 3: 17-19. I'm moving forward. Thanks for your prayers. Something to learn here. I do remember my sister-in-law complained to me and my cousin about her husband, my oldest brother. I asked her if she told him. She said she didn't. I told her it isn't written on her forehead and he can't guess. If he would guess and it's wrong it would also be frustrating for the both of them. I don't know what they did after that. We don't have a close relationship. That I said that to her doesn't mean I'm good at telling my expectations. I have to learn it too. A good post. Just a sidenote: I can tell you I'm fine now. I received a scripture this week which encouraged me and various other scriptures. One of them is Habakkuk 3: 17-19. I'm moving forward. Thanks for your prayers.

]]> http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-4569 Justin and Trisha Fri, 18 Jun 2010 11:56:41 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-4569 That is tough...I know that so many of us struggle with unmet expectations...praying for you. That is tough…I know that so many of us struggle with unmet expectations…praying for you.

]]> http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-9150 Justin and Trisha Fri, 18 Jun 2010 11:56:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-9150 That is tough...I know that so many of us struggle with unmet expectations...praying for you. That is tough…I know that so many of us struggle with unmet expectations…praying for you.

]]> http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-4568 Justin and Trisha Fri, 18 Jun 2010 11:55:45 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-4568 Great insight Kevin...that is very helpful to me! Spoken and agreed upon...that's good! Great insight Kevin…that is very helpful to me! Spoken and agreed upon…that's good!

]]> http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-9149 Justin and Trisha Fri, 18 Jun 2010 11:55:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-9149 Great insight Kevin...that is very helpful to me! Spoken and agreed upon...that's good! Great insight Kevin…that is very helpful to me! Spoken and agreed upon…that's good!

]]> http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-4567 Justin and Trisha Fri, 18 Jun 2010 11:53:36 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-4567 Thank you Jenny! What is reasonable to one person may not be to another...that is why communication is key! Thank you Jenny! What is reasonable to one person may not be to another…that is why communication is key!

]]> http://refineus.org/2010/06/unspoken-expectations/comment-page-1/#comment-9148 Justin and Trisha Fri, 18 Jun 2010 11:53:00 +0000 http://refineus.org/?p=2186#comment-9148 Thank you Jenny! What is reasonable to one person may not be to another...that is why communication is key! Thank you Jenny! What is reasonable to one person may not be to another…that is why communication is key!

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