Unexpected Ways

A little over a year ago, we sat our middle son Elijah down and told him that we felt like God was leading us back into full time vocational ministry. We didn’t know what that looked like, but we wanted to make the decision as a family. Elijah immediately began to cry. Neither Trisha nor I thought this was a good thing. We began to console him and ask him if he was okay. Through his sobbing he simply said “I’m so happy, this is what you were made for.” Then we began to cry! Such a sweet kid!

Since that day, Elijah has been asking me if he could speak on Sunday morning. As kindly as I can, I have explained to him that although Cross Point is an awesome church I don’t have the authority to allow this to happen. He has continued to tell me that he has a vision to speak on Sunday morning.

Two weeks ago, Trisha and Micah and Elijah spent the week at iGNITE Camp. iGNITE is the summer camp for Eagle Church in Zionsville, Indiana. This was Trisha’s fourth year leading worship for the camp. I have included a short video of the last night of camp just to give you a flavor of what they experienced throughout the week. It was a powerful week for my kids to not only be with old friends, but to reignite their passion for Christ.

The Sunday following iGNITE camp, the camp band led in worship and the youth pastor, Ian, gave a recap of the week and shared all that God did in and through the students. At the end of his talk, he said something that threw everyone for a loop. He said to the 120 students and the 400 adults in the auditorium that during worship that morning, he saw Elijah worshiping. He felt like God was prompting him to invite Elijah up to close out the service with a challenge for both the students and the parents. Elijah’s vision for speaking on Sunday morning had become a reality. I pulled out my phone and captured it on video. (The video shakes some because I may have been crying a little.)

As I was processing this whole series of events, my heart was opened to this truth: often the way God executes the vision he has placed in our heart doesn’t look like we thought it would. God had given Elijah a vision to speak on Sunday morning. None of us expected it to happen the way that it did.

Maybe you have a vision for a relationship that seems stalled. Maybe you have a vision for your career that appears further away now than it ever has. Maybe you have a vision for your marriage that consistently to take 2 steps forward and then 3 steps back. Maybe you have a vision for doing something great for God, and for whatever reason that vision hasn’t become a reality.

Can I challenge you today to not miss the things God is doing to fulfill his vision for your life, even if it isn’t playing out like you thought it would. Just because it doesn’t look like you think it should, doesn’t mean God isn’t at work. So don’t give up. Don’t stop pursing your God given vision. He often shows up in unexpected ways.

Has there been a time in your life that God fulfilled a vision you had in a way you didn’t expect?

  • http://www.anewlifehartz.blogspot.com Lindsey @ A New Life

    I just love the hearts of your children~ so evident that you all truly teaching them to love God and love others. I can only hope we can do the same for ours.

    Strangely enough, today I posted on finding joy in unexpected ways and places :-) This reminds me of that~~having the presence of mind to remember that God hears our unspoken groans of our heart and our outpouring of prayers in His name. We can rest in deep reassurance and full joy that He will answer in His timing and in His way in the EXACT way we need, even if it doesn't feel that way or look the way we hoped.

    Blessings,
    Lindsey
    My recent post Where Joy Lives

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      I'm constantly reminded that he is always moving and longs for me to find joy and peace in knowing that he will not plant a vision in my heart with no opportunity to live it out. His timing isn't always mine :)

  • http://www.anewlifehartz.blogspot.com Lindsey @ A New Life

    I just love the hearts of your children~ so evident that you all truly teaching them to love God and love others. I can only hope we can do the same for ours.

    Strangely enough, today I posted on finding joy in unexpected ways and places :-) This reminds me of that~~having the presence of mind to remember that God hears our unspoken groans of our heart and our outpouring of prayers in His name. We can rest in deep reassurance and full joy that He will answer in His timing and in His way in the EXACT way we need, even if it doesn't feel that way or look the way we hoped.

    Blessings,
    Lindsey
    My recent post Where Joy Lives

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      I'm constantly reminded that he is always moving and longs for me to find joy and peace in knowing that he will not plant a vision in my heart with no opportunity to live it out. His timing isn't always mine :)

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  • Melissa Irwin

    Relentless…."so what…they can hear it again!" I love it! That was precious. Elijah is clearly a sweet and special young man. i cannot imagine how awesome that must have been for all of you!
    My recent post Spirit Invasion

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      Relentless indeed! We are very proud of him!

  • Melissa Irwin

    Relentless…."so what…they can hear it again!" I love it! That was precious. Elijah is clearly a sweet and special young man. i cannot imagine how awesome that must have been for all of you!
    My recent post Spirit Invasion

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      Relentless indeed! We are very proud of him!

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/JasonWert JasonWert

    How fantastic. I can only imagine how great you felt as a father watching and hearing this. God really seems to love giving you blessings out of the blue. :)
    My recent post TPWC Day 24- A reminder of the good

    • http://www.refineus.org Justin and Trisha

      It was pretty incredible…and to know that God orchestrated it and we didn’t was even better!

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/JasonWert JasonWert

    How fantastic. I can only imagine how great you felt as a father watching and hearing this. God really seems to love giving you blessings out of the blue. :)
    My recent post TPWC Day 24- A reminder of the good

    • http://www.refineus.org Justin and Trisha

      It was pretty incredible…and to know that God orchestrated it and we didn’t was even better!

  • cshell

    I got to be honest, maybe because of my upbringing, but when I hear the word "vision" i get nervous and uncomfortable. But with that said, that was awesome! You must be very proud parents and what I take away from that is my kids may still have a shot despite how messed up I am.____So glad you guys are back, last week i was very lonely on the blogosphere :)

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      It is nice to be back…we're all messed up and I'm so glad the grace of God extends to my inability as a parent!

  • cshell

    I got to be honest, maybe because of my upbringing, but when I hear the word "vision" i get nervous and uncomfortable. But with that said, that was awesome! You must be very proud parents and what I take away from that is my kids may still have a shot despite how messed up I am.____So glad you guys are back, last week i was very lonely on the blogosphere :)

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      It is nice to be back…we're all messed up and I'm so glad the grace of God extends to my inability as a parent!

  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/jennyrain JennyRain

    This is SOOOO like the story of my life right now.

    But this story of Elijah is SOOOOO encouraging…. wow :) yay!
    My recent post Man Week @ The Rain

    • http://www.refineus.org Justin and Trisha

      Thanks Jenny! Praying for your visions to become clear!

  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/jennyrain JennyRain

    This is SOOOO like the story of my life right now.

    But this story of Elijah is SOOOOO encouraging…. wow :) yay!
    My recent post Man Week @ The Rain

    • http://www.refineus.org Justin and Trisha

      Thanks Jenny! Praying for your visions to become clear!

  • http://www.withoutwax.tv pete wilson

    Why do I have this feeling Elijah is going to totally take my job away from me one day???? :)
    My recent post To The Ends Of The Earth

    • http://www.refineus.org Justin and Trisha

      your days are numbered :)

  • http://www.withoutwax.tv pete wilson

    Why do I have this feeling Elijah is going to totally take my job away from me one day???? :)
    My recent post To The Ends Of The Earth

    • http://www.refineus.org Justin and Trisha

      your days are numbered :)

  • georgestull

    that's so awesome…Micah got the bball and Elijah the preacher skills from dad! Miss you guys.
    My recent post Dignity- The Most Essential Human Necessity

    • http://www.refineus.org Justin and Trisha

      Miss you too bro! I’m pretty proud of both of them!

  • georgestull

    that's so awesome…Micah got the bball and Elijah the preacher skills from dad! Miss you guys.
    My recent post Dignity- The Most Essential Human Necessity

    • http://www.refineus.org Justin and Trisha

      Miss you too bro! I’m pretty proud of both of them!

  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/morgsmsquared Morgan

    ok, WOW! That was seriously cool to listen to Elijah! What a gift from God he is! I'm so happy he got his chance to speak on Sunday. I have a feeling his messages are going to change lives. Justin & Trish, your family is amazing!
    My recent post He Is Mighty To Save…

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      Thanks Morgan!

  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/morgsmsquared Morgan

    ok, WOW! That was seriously cool to listen to Elijah! What a gift from God he is! I'm so happy he got his chance to speak on Sunday. I have a feeling his messages are going to change lives. Justin & Trish, your family is amazing!
    My recent post He Is Mighty To Save…

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      Thanks Morgan!

  • fred

    Great!

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      Truly!

  • fred

    Great!

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      Truly!

  • http://christinaeba.wordpress.com christina

    What an AMAZING child you guys have!!!!!

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      We are so blessed!

  • http://christinaeba.wordpress.com christina

    What an AMAZING child you guys have!!!!!

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      We are so blessed!

  • http://livingfullypraisingloudly.blogspot.com LES

    justin and trisha. . .you cannot imagine how much i needed to read this today coming from someone who could have had no clue what my day held. another reminder that the Lord gives us exactly what we need, when we need it, and how we need it. gosh.

    i have spent all day very discouraged. discouraged that my vision has yet to be fulfilled. discouraged that the 'fulfilling' is not going the way i anticipated. discouraged that the 'fulfilling' is taking WAY longer than i imagined or desired. frustrated that my vision is the way the Lord has for me. frustrated that i am watching everyone elses dreams come true while mine are shattered.

    when i read this paragraph: "Can I challenge you today to not miss the things God is doing to fulfill his vision for your life, even if it isn’t playing out like you thought it would. Just because it doesn’t look like you think it should, doesn’t mean God isn’t at work. So don’t give up. Don’t stop pursing your God given vision. He often shows up in unexpected ways. " my mouth dropped open and my hand came up to my chest in complete and utter shock.

    it was almost as if the still small voice of the Lord was reading those words to me personally and saying, "L, i have this under control. . .trust Me. My way is higher and better than any scenario your mind could ever wrap around." thank you for being faithful to share today. elijah's faith and willingness to serve where God puts Him and for the Lord's glory is incredibly encouraging.

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      Wow…Les…thank you for sharing. I love it when God shows up unexpectedly and gives me a word that I needed in that moment. So humbled this post could be that for you.

  • http://livingfullypraisingloudly.blogspot.com LES

    justin and trisha. . .you cannot imagine how much i needed to read this today coming from someone who could have had no clue what my day held. another reminder that the Lord gives us exactly what we need, when we need it, and how we need it. gosh.

    i have spent all day very discouraged. discouraged that my vision has yet to be fulfilled. discouraged that the 'fulfilling' is not going the way i anticipated. discouraged that the 'fulfilling' is taking WAY longer than i imagined or desired. frustrated that my vision is the way the Lord has for me. frustrated that i am watching everyone elses dreams come true while mine are shattered.

    when i read this paragraph: "Can I challenge you today to not miss the things God is doing to fulfill his vision for your life, even if it isn’t playing out like you thought it would. Just because it doesn’t look like you think it should, doesn’t mean God isn’t at work. So don’t give up. Don’t stop pursing your God given vision. He often shows up in unexpected ways. " my mouth dropped open and my hand came up to my chest in complete and utter shock.

    it was almost as if the still small voice of the Lord was reading those words to me personally and saying, "L, i have this under control. . .trust Me. My way is higher and better than any scenario your mind could ever wrap around." thank you for being faithful to share today. elijah's faith and willingness to serve where God puts Him and for the Lord's glory is incredibly encouraging.

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      Wow…Les…thank you for sharing. I love it when God shows up unexpectedly and gives me a word that I needed in that moment. So humbled this post could be that for you.

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  • http://intensedebate.com/people/MaurilioAmorim MaurilioAmorim

    Awesome moment for you as a dad and a milestone for Elijah's spiritual journey. Thanks for sharing. Watching this across the world (Austria) and being blessed by it.

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      It was a pretty cool moment. Glad it blessed you. Hope your trip is going well. Travel safe!

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/MaurilioAmorim MaurilioAmorim

    Awesome moment for you as a dad and a milestone for Elijah's spiritual journey. Thanks for sharing. Watching this across the world (Austria) and being blessed by it.

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      It was a pretty cool moment. Glad it blessed you. Hope your trip is going well. Travel safe!

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  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/mysonsthree brandiandboys

    i LOVE it… what a cool experience for a parent to watch their child deliver that message. i have to say my favorite part was how he held that bible and waved it around as he spoke! so stinking cute!
    My recent post Legacy…

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      It was pretty cool! He worked that Bible like a pro! :)

  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/mysonsthree brandiandboys

    i LOVE it… what a cool experience for a parent to watch their child deliver that message. i have to say my favorite part was how he held that bible and waved it around as he spoke! so stinking cute!
    My recent post Legacy…

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/davisfamily05 Justin and Trisha

      It was pretty cool! He worked that Bible like a pro! :)

  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/vickydublu vickydublu

    thanks for posting this. i am a well of emotion as i watch it and read this. too many emotions for too many different reasons to even sort out. i am trying to cling to this truth. but it sure is difficult.
    i am SO happy for you guys and what God has done and is doing in your family. thank you for sharing with us.
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  • http://intensedebate.com/profiles/vickydublu vickydublu

    thanks for posting this. i am a well of emotion as i watch it and read this. too many emotions for too many different reasons to even sort out. i am trying to cling to this truth. but it sure is difficult.
    i am SO happy for you guys and what God has done and is doing in your family. thank you for sharing with us.
    My recent post Today is a mess