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	<description>To remove impurities from something...</description>
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		<title>Comment on 8 Things that Restored Our Marriage Pt. 3 (Repost) by Tweets that mention 8 Things that Restored Our Marriage Pt. 3 (Repost) &#124; Refine Us -- Topsy.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tweets that mention 8 Things that Restored Our Marriage Pt. 3 (Repost) &#124; Refine Us -- Topsy.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 21:10:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Justin Davis and Justin Davis, Kimberli Nelson. Kimberli Nelson said: RT @justindavis33: 8 Things that Restored Our Marriage Pt. 3 (repost) http://ow.ly/2iWtU #fb [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Justin Davis and Justin Davis, Kimberli Nelson. Kimberli Nelson said: RT @justindavis33: 8 Things that Restored Our Marriage Pt. 3 (repost) <a href="http://ow.ly/2iWtU" rel="nofollow">http://ow.ly/2iWtU</a> #fb [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on 8 Things that Restored Our Marriage Pt. 3 (Repost) by cshell</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/07/8-things-that-restored-our-marriage-pt-3-repost/comment-page-1/#comment-5107</link>
		<dc:creator>cshell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 17:28:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not saying what is right for anyone else but us, and for &quot;us&quot; (really ME, it just can&#039;t be in front of me like it was).   
 
Its amazing how much better of a husband and father you become as you don&#039;t wast 3+ hours a night watching TV and instead play games with the kids, read, engage your family memebers, help with chores around the house, etc. 
 
Thank you for the post, i think it is a HUGE issue for LOTS of christian couples that goes unspoken. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;m not saying what is right for anyone else but us, and for &quot;us&quot; (really ME, it just can&#039;t be in front of me like it was).   </p>
<p>Its amazing how much better of a husband and father you become as you don&#039;t wast 3+ hours a night watching TV and instead play games with the kids, read, engage your family memebers, help with chores around the house, etc. </p>
<p>Thank you for the post, i think it is a HUGE issue for LOTS of christian couples that goes unspoken.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 8 Things that Restored Our Marriage Pt. 3 (Repost) by cshell</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/07/8-things-that-restored-our-marriage-pt-3-repost/comment-page-1/#comment-5106</link>
		<dc:creator>cshell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 17:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been wondering if you would ever post on this subject...it is hard for me to see tweets and posts from &quot;christians&quot; and people i assume our in the same mess as I,  talking about LOST, 24, and you name it. 
 
Almost two years ago when it all hit the fan we/I could not even get through an episode of 24 (I was like &quot;Lord, please, not 24!&quot;)  But when God is in the breaking process and you actually see your sin as he does it is crazy what we become accustomed to that doesn&#039;t even make us blink.  If i&#039;m being honest, it is very hard for me to see someone admit they have a pornography addiction or lust issues and then go on and on about a show, say LOST.  I loved LOST, but did I lust watching that show?  You bet i did.  So no more LOST.  Actually we don&#039;t watch TV anymore, nothing.  I watch the occasional ball game (turn it on every commercial, and sometimes during the ball game) and my wife watches with me.  
 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#039;ve been wondering if you would ever post on this subject&#8230;it is hard for me to see tweets and posts from &quot;christians&quot; and people i assume our in the same mess as I,  talking about LOST, 24, and you name it. </p>
<p>Almost two years ago when it all hit the fan we/I could not even get through an episode of 24 (I was like &quot;Lord, please, not 24!&quot;)  But when God is in the breaking process and you actually see your sin as he does it is crazy what we become accustomed to that doesn&#039;t even make us blink.  If i&#039;m being honest, it is very hard for me to see someone admit they have a pornography addiction or lust issues and then go on and on about a show, say LOST.  I loved LOST, but did I lust watching that show?  You bet i did.  So no more LOST.  Actually we don&#039;t watch TV anymore, nothing.  I watch the occasional ball game (turn it on every commercial, and sometimes during the ball game) and my wife watches with me.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 8 Things that Restored Our Marriage Pt. 3 (Repost) by kristerdunn</title>
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		<dc:creator>kristerdunn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 16:53:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We make choices every day. I&#039;m learning that making the right choices, little by little, has the huge pay off you talk about. I&#039;m glad you both had the courage to sell yourself out to the right things...and glad you had the courage to put it out there in this post. The bar has been set...high. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We make choices every day. I&#039;m learning that making the right choices, little by little, has the huge pay off you talk about. I&#039;m glad you both had the courage to sell yourself out to the right things&#8230;and glad you had the courage to put it out there in this post. The bar has been set&#8230;high.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lying When the Truth Would Do by Justin and Trisha</title>
		<link>http://refineus.org/2010/07/lying-when-the-truth-would-do/comment-page-1/#comment-5100</link>
		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pride is a huge one for me too...that is a blog post for another day :)  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pride is a huge one for me too&#8230;that is a blog post for another day <img src='http://refineus.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Lying When the Truth Would Do by Justin and Trisha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Lindsey...so glad God has taken you on that journey!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Lindsey&#8230;so glad God has taken you on that journey!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lying When the Truth Would Do by Justin and Trisha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Chrissy...we have all lived in those shades of gray! Thanks for sharing!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Chrissy&#8230;we have all lived in those shades of gray! Thanks for sharing!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lying When the Truth Would Do by Justin and Trisha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:51:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a compliment...turning your story into ours...that is the desire of our heart!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a compliment&#8230;turning your story into ours&#8230;that is the desire of our heart!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lying When the Truth Would Do by Justin and Trisha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow...what a powerful moment. You are breaking that cycle of sin in your family Chuck! Keep the faith and stay on the path bro!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230;what a powerful moment. You are breaking that cycle of sin in your family Chuck! Keep the faith and stay on the path bro!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Lying When the Truth Would Do by Justin and Trisha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justin and Trisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is hard to reconcile old wounds. So many times I think I&#039;ve gotten over them, they come back when I least expect it. Thanks for sharing Melissa!  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is hard to reconcile old wounds. So many times I think I&#039;ve gotten over them, they come back when I least expect it. Thanks for sharing Melissa!</p>
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