Our Story

Justin and Trisha Davis’ return to ministry is the result of a victorious battle for their marriage and family. After successfully planting their first church, Justin had an affair with a staff member, who was also Trisha’s best friend.

What followed was a 4-year journey of pain, grief and ultimately the restoration of their relationship by the grace of God. This experience left a watermark on their marriage of what it really means to experience grace, love and redemption firsthand—both individually and as a couple.

In 2009 they founded RefineUs Ministries using their story of failure, loss, and transformation to guide The Church, pastors, and church planters towards a healthy marriage and family.

Justin and Trisha are bloggers, authors, and teachers in Nashville, TN where they reside with their three boys.

Justin is currently campus and teaching pastor of Cross Point Community Church, Bellvue Campus—recently named the 6th fastest growing church in the country. Justin and Trisha both attended Lincoln Christian University in Lincoln, IL where they met and fell in love (with Justin adamantly asking Trisha out twice a week for 6 months before she said yes.)

Micah, Isaiah, Elijah

Justin received his BA degree in Christian Education in Lincoln and Trisha later earned her degree from Indiana University.

With the rare free time that they can scrounge up, you will find Justin and Trisha going on walks, eating at PF Changs, or having coffee together; and sometimes all three at once. They consider the resurrection of their marriage to be a great gift and feel it a privilege to use RefineUs to help others towards that same healing.

Their first book Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Isn’t Good Enough  from Tyndale House Publishers, releases in February 2013. They  are passionate about sharing all that God has done in their life, marriage and family.

Justin and Trisha shared their story a few years ago with Cross Point Church  You can view the 20 minute video below.